Thursday, 19 February 2009
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Ditchin' the rents!
So I have this friend who always comes to me for advice.. all the time, about her and her boyfriends relationship. They are cute, don't get me wrong. But completely opposite.. which doesn't always matter and in this case. It doesn't. However.. Myles (her boyfriend) always tends to ditch her for his guy friends. And she tells him to stop and it just keeps happening and this where I come in.
I tell her he's not reliable.. and if he literally ditches you, after seeing his buddies at school the whole day, its pretty bad. I mean she loves him and you can tell he loves her.. but seriously is he mature or trustworthy enough for a relationship? or should she be with him? I say no. Not only because he ''ditches'' her but because he is an ass to her constanttly and makes her cry continuously, and I think thats just wrong. But she says to me, yeah im breaking up with him.. yatta yatta.. and never does. I think she's scared to lose him. i know she wants to be with him.. but shes better off without. Thats just my opinion.
She told me this the other day that her mom and myles are not good.. like her mom hates him because of what Jen( my friend ) tells her mom about what Myles does or says tpo her so obviously her mom wont like it.. so jens mom was going to give him another chance and made dinner all day for this night for him to come eat dinner witht hem and get along, and you know what he did? He showed up and told jen he is sorry and had to go cause he forgot it was ''guys night''.. Like are you FUCKING kidding me? Excuse my language... but if it was my boyfriend and my mom spent literally all day preparing this feast for us and all of a sudden my boyfriend ditches out on me to go hang with guys when he can see them whenever but only has this one chance to make a good connection with my family.. I would literally break up with him for just dis-respecting my family. Period.
That is just horrific.
And when she told me I said fuck him, dump his ass. He is definitely not worth the pain and the effort if all he wants to do is see his buddies when he sees them every signle day at school... and he doesnt see his gf cause she is out of school and doesnt get along with her rents because of the past shit thast has gone down.
Do you think I did the right thing by giving her advice? I mean I told her its her choice! But do you agree with me about how big of an idiot he is? and how childish and un trustworthy he is as a person? Would your parents ahte you if this happened to your boy?
- j
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Comments (3)
I think you can give your side of things... and the rest is up to her... i also think the guy is very immature and not very responsible. Ofcourse you'd love your friend to be happy- the thing is, sometimes it's hard to let go of the strong attachment involved with a relationship...
@chickadee09 - Thanks! :)
wow he doesn't sound like a good guy to me. i couldn't date anyone who disrespected my family in any way. period. if he doesn't respect them, he surely wouldn't respect me. and .. love and respect goes hand in hand in my opinion. yeah.. opinion away, but remember...... how you feel when someone tells you your boyfriend doesn't deserve you. you hear it, but you don't wanna believe it. so... if she doesn't listen, then..... it's just because relationships are difficult to let go of.